How are you? This is one of the most frequently asked questions. We hear it almost every day. Yesterday morning, I was on my way to work and when I got into the elevator, I met a collegue of mine. She smiled at me and asked: How are you? What I thought: I’m not fine, […]

When you invest in love, it is like investing in equities or derivatives: you never have a guarantee on return. Not even on repayment. There’s no one who could underwrite you to get your money back. So why are you afraid of being deceived? The worst thing that could happen to you is to be […]

Do you know the days you wake up in the morning and you know that this day is going to be awesome?! The moments you don’t know if you’re still dreaming? I had such a moment today. I woke up and there he was, this wonderful man with sleep in his lovely eyes. He smiled […]

She had blue skin And so did he. he kept it hid and so did she. They searched for blue their whole life through, then passed right by – and never knew.

I am a dreamer. I always dream of the things I want to do in life. Believe me, there are enough of it. But I do not have the courage to make them real. It’s a shame but I can’t get out of my skin.  In the daytime my body has several functions: like getting out […]

We try to separate our feelings like waste. We try to split off the bad and concentrate on the good. Are you successful with that? Does it make your life better? Is it even possible to treat feelings like trash? I don’t think so! I think we are all a sum of feelings which should […]

Read this book, I definitely love it!!

Some of my best friends know me very well. For them it’s predictable how I am going to act in some situations.  For my mother even my mood is predictable by just looking into my face.  These are the people I love and spend time with. They know me for many years or even all […]

Do I want that? Do I want that? Do I want that?

… I want the things that lead up to it. … The slow kissing then the passionate kissing… … the pulling closer… … the neck kisses… … the grabbing… … biting… … heavy breathing… … grinding… … the pauses while you catch your breath… … feeling each other… … … … … … Then SEX!

People only hear what they want to hear, no matter what you say. There are always people who adhere to their opinion, even if they can’t constitute it. And sometimes we even know that this fact is a lie, but we want to believe so bad… …that we do! It is fascinating how our mind is […]

Love ist the sweetest thing I know. It makes me smile all day and it makes me feel invulnerable. For me, this is the greatest gift I can imagine: being loved for who I am. With all my failures and all my bad habits. We are all affected by things that happened in our past. The […]

My beloved friend Conny used to say: They are all grey and wrinkled when they get old. I totally agree with her. The optical appearance attracts us for the first view, for the first hours or for the first weeks. But in the end, this is not the thing we grow old with. For me, […]

Who am I? I am here in this moment thinking about myself. I am a human being and I am thinking out of a body that belongs to me. Isn’t it strange that these two things seem to be separated parts of me while asking me this question?


Turn your face towards the sun, let the shadows fall behind you. Don’t look back, just carry on, and the shadows will never find you.


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