Today, I have accompanied someone to the doctor. For me, she is one of my closest beloved. She is always there for me and I see her every single day, except of a few ones a year. I saw a big needle. I saw it and I observed the one who was going to get […]

The Trutg-dil-Flem is marked several times (SIA – Schweizerisches Ingenieur- und Architekten-Verein, Prix Nando) and now manifested as the best hiking trail of Switzerland. I made this trail last week and I was impressed by this beautiful nature and its sight to behold. The Flem is a tributary of the Vorderrhein of about 16 kilometers based in the canton of Graubünden, Switzerland.

First of all I want to show you the map I will be talking about so that you are able to orientate yourself.

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Cats are strange companions, we never quite know where we stand with them. They are purring creatures and condescending overlords. They do switch their mood within seconds: In a moment they let themselves be caressed with pleasure and show us their vulnerable side, in the other moment, they turn around and bite mercilessly. Without any warning. […]

“I like beautiful people, their look is totally indifferent for me.”

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Let me say this: bein a idiot is no box of chocolates. People laugh, lose patience, treat you shabby. Now they says folks sposed to be kind to the afflicted, but let me tell you — it ain’t always that way. Even so, I got no complaints, cause I reckon I done live a pretty […]

"Bein' a idiot is no box of chocolates," but "at least I ain't led no hum-drum life," says Forrest Gump, the lovable, surprisingly savvy hero of this wonderful comic tale. When the University of Alabama's football team drafts Forrest and makes him a star, that's only the beginning! He flunks out - and goes on to be a Vietnam war hero, a world-class Ping-Pong player, a wrestler, and a business tycoon. He compares battle scars with Lyndon Johnson, discovers the truth about Richard Nixon, and suffers the ups and downs of true love. Now, Forrest Gump's telling all - in a madcap, screwball romp through three decades of the American landscape. It's Gump's amazing travels... and you've got to hear them to believe them.

The film (produced in 1994) is based on the 1986 novel of the same name by Wonston Groom. Main actors in the film are Tom Hanks, Robin Wright and Sally Field. And by the way: it is my most favourite film, and now I want to tell you why!

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“The question is not what you look at, but what you see.”

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If I buy myself some clothes or other material things, my pleasure is not for very long time. You buy it, you wear it, you take it for granted. But if you invest your money in travelling, you live on this for longtime. Memories arise and you gain pictures in your head from moments nobody could give you […]

I wake up in the morning and wonder what time it is. Is it already time to stand up? Who defines the time to stand up? It’s me. I got no liabilities today, so it doesn’t matter at all. My eyes are wandering around and stop at the bed next to me. It is empty. […]

Erich Fried

Es ist Unsinn, sagt die Vernunft.
Es ist, was es ist, sagt die Liebe.
Es ist Unglück, sagt die Berechnung.
Es ist nichts als Schmerz, sagt die Angst.
Es ist aussichtslos, sagt die Einsicht.
Es ist, was es ist, sagt die Liebe.
Es ist lächerlich, sagt der Stolz.
Es ist leichtsinnig, sagt die Vorsicht.
Es ist unmöglich, sagt die Erfahrung.

Es ist, was es ist  –  sagt die Liebe.



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Bin ich noch ich? Ich ist Ich weil Ich ist wie Ich eben ist. Aber ist Ich noch Ich, wenn Ich wie Du sein versucht? Warum meint Ich dass Ich wie Du sein muss und mag Du Ich noch, wenn Ich nicht mehr Ich ist, oder mag Du sich selbst lieber als Ich? Wie weit geht Ich um ihr […]

“An eye for an eye will make the whole world blind.”

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I never thought that you would be the one to hold my heart But you came around and you knocked me off the ground from the start You put your arms around me And I believe that it’s easier for you to let me go You put your arms around me and I’m home How […]

Lying in bed and not being able to sleep really is a bad thing. I never used to know this. I can’t sleep because my thoughts won’t let me. Isn’t there a handle to switch off the own head? Would be a nice invention to get rich with. But please don’t rob my idea. I […]

Love me for who I am

In 2014 I made myself a tattoo which still is my most favourite one. I made it because of all the people I met, who would have liked to change me. They did not like me as I am and as I always try to please everybody, I started to dislike me as I was. […]

Be honest to yourself and Always ask yourself 3 questions.  

I used to love people. I used to be tolerant to all their problems and to all their belongings. I was loved by everyone. I talked to everyone. Now I am sick of them. I am so fucking sick of them that it sometimes hurts. I don’t want to talk to anybody anymore. What did […]

I am sitting at the airport and I am watching two of the employees helping a handicapped man. He is not able to change his wheelchair to another seat himself. I think nearly everybody thinks the same watching this: “I am glad that I am able to walk and I am glad not to need […]

The formula is always easy. You only have to find one that fits to your bleongings and then you start buying the ingredients. Sometimes you have to go to several stores before you get everything you want. Not every store has Weinstein baking powder, and many people do not even know what the hell it […]

Anbei ein Beitrag aus der Backnanger Kreiszeitung über Tablets an Schulen unter Mitwirkung von (meiner Schwester) Carmen Kubik, Mathematiklehrerin. Translation: This is a newspaper article about tablets at school with the collaboration of (my sister) Carmen Kubik, teacher for mathematics. Google statt Brockhaus, Mathe-App statt Formelsammlung – Eduard-Breuninger-Schule schickt Tablet-Klasse an den Start. Der Lehrer schreibt an die […]

Anbei ein Beitrag aus der Stuttgarter Zeitung über Tablets an Schulen unter Mitwirkung von (meiner Schwester) Carmen Kubik, Mathematiklehrerin. Translation: This is a newspaper article about tablets at school with the collaboration of (my sister) Carmen Kubik, teacher for mathematics. Die Eduard-Breuninger-Schule in Backnang nimmt an einem Modellprojekt teil, bei dem der durchgehende Einsatz der mobilen […]

My Mom the do-gooder! I wanted to check my emails today. I took my laptop and saw that my mom was still logged in with her account. I often do a lot of stuff for her, cause she isn’t very fit with all the computer stuff.She could be, because she’s very intelligent, but she doesn’t want […]

Why do women without a man do usually have a cat?  Is it because they are really similar? Both playful, sometimes lazy and never to understand?  They both stay where they feel comfortable without any need to do much for it.  But there’s one difference left: Cats are always honest meanwhile you are able to […]

I am still alone. I came home from sports and my body was covered in sweat. I wanted to take a shower, so I went to the bathroom and watched myself in the mirror. I already passed the age of 30 but I have to say that by watching my reflection I have to be […]

It’s eating me up every single night. It’s eating me up. I am so alone.  My favourite favourite drug would be to wake up with him every single day… and I am sure that I would honour this every single day… without taking it for granted.  It’s eating me up. Is it possible that two […]

I made a good choice with you! he said. Actually it was me chosing you! I replied. And then my thoughts began to take its course. Was it really me choosing him? I thought so because I was the first to start the conversation. But if I have to think twice, I do not know […]

Till today I didn’t know that the quote Brakes are for losers! comes out of a video game. I did not know this quote until I met someone special. I watched him doing the Ironman. I told him to be careful. I told him so because I was afraid of him. He’s the kind of […]

There is a house built out of stone Wooden floors, walls and window sills…Tables and chairs worn by all of the dust.This is a place where I don’t feel aloneThis is a place where I feel at home…Cause, I built a homefor youfor meUntil it disappearedfrom mefrom youAnd now, it’s time to leave and turn […]

Baiyoke Sky Hotel is the highest hotel in Bangkok and was the most luxury accomodation I had during this vacancy. 5.022 Baht for two person and two nights. It is clean and we got a free upgrade which was wonderful. The hotel has 83 floors and I lived on the 49th. The view was stunning […]

I received a wonderful Bamboo Tattoo made by great artists from Koh Tao Bamboo Tattoo. First I was sceptical, but after having spoken with another tourist I knew that they would do a good job. The stuff is very friendly and there’s only one thing to say: A tattoo made bamboo art is ART! For […]

This morning I did my sports workout in a fitness center in the hotel. I had a beautiful view through the big window down to the big city below me and so I was looking forward to walk on the treadmill. I started running… and I started thinking like I normally do jogging in the […]

Koh Tao Tropicana Resort was my favorite place to be in Thailand. It’s on the island Koh Tao and an absolute origin island. There are a lot of diving schools and I already have regrets that I did not make my free diver there. You should do it there. The resort is pretty clean and […]

Shark Bay is a pretty spot where you are able to see a lot of colored fish and little sharks. Unfortunately I saw none of the sharks, but I saw a large turttle instead and this was stunning. There is a nice restaurant on top of the hill and you see down to shark bay […]

Have you ever known somebody who is criticizing you the whole day through? And you have absolutely nobody around from whom you could get a second opinion? I never thought I would be so difficult, and everyone I know tells me to be the easiest person around. I am not selfish, I am open minded […]

Malibu Beach Bungalows are pretty little Bungalows with a hammock on each veranda. They look pretty nice, but they are very small and simple inside. You got a mini fridge and the bathroom is like all the bungalows in Thailand only one room where you flood the whole room by taking a shower. I will […]

The one I love Told me That he needs me. Therefore I take care of myself See my way and Fear of every raindrop That he could slay me. © Berthold Brecht Der, den ich liebe … Der, den ich liebe Hat mir gesagt Daß er mich braucht. Darum Gebe ich auf mich acht Sehe […]

I would like to sit at the beach and see the world through the eyes of a man. What do they see when they look around? I can tell it to you from my point of view. I mostly do not watch out for beautiful men, although I am a really heterosexual woman. My eyes […]

This lodge is absolutely extraordinary! I booked three nights for 1.950 Baht and what I got for this was much more than I expected! Let’s start from the beginning: I took the fairy from Koh Samui to Koh Phangan which took me about one hour. They said it would take 30 minutes, but I was […]

Staying in a bungalow in Chaweng Chalet is very good. They are so friendly and the beach is very beautiful. The little bungalow is clean and offers a big, big bed. The shower works good and the wifi does even work at the beach. It is nice like a little home: You should like cats […]

This night was an adventure to me. I bought a ticket for the train to move from Bangkok to Surat Thani. It wasn’t expensive at all and I was so excited what would expect me. At first, I thought I would be in the wrong train because of the seats there. I expected to see […]

If you have some time left in Bangkok, you can also take a ride on the Chao Phraia river with the boat. It took me one hour of time and around 650 Bath to do this. The tour started from another place as it ended but this was ok. You can see a lot of […]

The Buddha temple is exactly like I thought it would be. I putted myself a trousers on and en plus a long sleeve for Buddha is not angry with me. The Thais don’t even like Tattoos of Buddha, it’s against their law, because Buddha is not for decoration. I paid 100 Bath to get in […]

I am lying in the little coye of the night train from Bangkok to Surat Thani. This is my third night without sleep. I am lying awake and my eyes don’t want to do me the favor to close themselves. Since today I did not know why I couldn’t sleep at all, but perhaps I […]

I was only fourteen when I met this guy. At first he did not interest me much although I saw him nearly every week. It took me two years to find out that this guy has a heart made of kindness, goodness and selfless. I don’t know if he was really interested in me, I […]

Khaosan road is very impressive because you get some fruits, some clothes, some funny or buddhistic figures and you even get this:     I definitely do not have the courage to taste this, but lot of people do and it’s quite disgusting!!! The fish looks good and the street is a must-do!   I […]

There are several floating markets near Bangkok and for me it definitely was a highlight. The one I went on is about one and a half hour away, so the one or the other would perhaps prefer a nearer one.     You get there by taxi or car and after that I was brought […]

I can’t sleep this night. Normally it is absolutely no problem for me, but there are rare nights like this one today, then it seems not possible to close my eyes. It is funny, but when I cannot sleep, the weirdest thoughts are going through my mind.  I am lying here in the big bed […]

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You don’t have to be beautiful To turn me on I just need your body, baby From dusk till dawn   You don’t need experience To turn me out You just leave it all up to me I’m gonna show you what it’s all about   You don’t have to be rich to be my […]

This weekend I visited a castle and there was a falconer. I was deeply impressed by the birds which I saw there. There have been huge eagles and also little tiny owls. I fell in love with George, the smallest one of all. I looked at his little wings and these mini eyes. He was so […]


If someone would ask me what I wanted to have for birthday present, my answer would be simple. I don’t need expensive presents, I don’t need material things. I don’t want to have flowers or a special cake. I would reply: I just want my beloved to spend TIME with me. Seems simple but the more […]

How are you? This is one of the most frequently asked questions. We hear it almost every day. Yesterday morning, I was on my way to work and when I got into the elevator, I met a collegue of mine. She smiled at me and asked: How are you? What I thought: I’m not fine, […]

When you invest in love, it is like investing in equities or derivatives: you never have a guarantee on return. Not even on repayment. There’s no one who could underwrite you to get your money back. So why are you afraid of being deceived? The worst thing that could happen to you is to be […]

Do you know the days you wake up in the morning and you know that this day is going to be awesome?! The moments you don’t know if you’re still dreaming? I had such a moment today. I woke up and there he was, this wonderful man with sleep in his lovely eyes. He smiled […]

She had blue skin And so did he. he kept it hid and so did she. They searched for blue their whole life through, then passed right by – and never knew.

I am a dreamer. I always dream of the things I want to do in life. Believe me, there are enough of it. But I do not have the courage to make them real. It’s a shame but I can’t get out of my skin.  In the daytime my body has several functions: like getting out […]

We try to separate our feelings like waste. We try to split off the bad and concentrate on the good. Are you successful with that? Does it make your life better? Is it even possible to treat feelings like trash? I don’t think so! I think we are all a sum of feelings which should […]

Read this book, I definitely love it!!

Some of my best friends know me very well. For them it’s predictable how I am going to act in some situations.  For my mother even my mood is predictable by just looking into my face.  These are the people I love and spend time with. They know me for many years or even all […]

Do I want that? Do I want that? Do I want that?

… I want the things that lead up to it. … The slow kissing then the passionate kissing… … the pulling closer… … the neck kisses… … the grabbing… … biting… … heavy breathing… … grinding… … the pauses while you catch your breath… … feeling each other… … … … … … Then SEX!

People only hear what they want to hear, no matter what you say. There are always people who adhere to their opinion, even if they can’t constitute it. And sometimes we even know that this fact is a lie, but we want to believe so bad… …that we do! It is fascinating how our mind is […]

Love ist the sweetest thing I know. It makes me smile all day and it makes me feel invulnerable. For me, this is the greatest gift I can imagine: being loved for who I am. With all my failures and all my bad habits. We are all affected by things that happened in our past. The […]

My beloved friend Conny used to say: They are all grey and wrinkled when they get old. I totally agree with her. The optical appearance attracts us for the first view, for the first hours or for the first weeks. But in the end, this is not the thing we grow old with. For me, […]

Who am I? I am here in this moment thinking about myself. I am a human being and I am thinking out of a body that belongs to me. Isn’t it strange that these two things seem to be separated parts of me while asking me this question?

Turn your face towards the sun, let the shadows fall behind you. Don’t look back, just carry on, and the shadows will never find you.

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It is not our nature to sit on the couch and watch TV. We are meant to do something. Don’t you have so many ideas what to do in your life, take an adventure or travel the world? Maybe both? Not everyone is a traveller, not everyone likes action. But you should always remember that your heart […]

One day, I will no longer exist. Don’t know how many years or months or days are left to live, but I often ask myself: the day I will not exist anymore, will the world ever change a bit? Is there anything that will be different than it is now? What did I do in […]

I often go to sleep at night being reflexive. I’m often concerned about many things. My thoughts begin to spin in circles and I begin to be worried about my day. I am afraid of what will be or if my plans will work. But my biggest fear is always to please everybody. For me it […]

Being skeptical will prevent you from unfolding your creativity. If you hesitate too long, you will always find something you do not like. Do not do that! Do not doubt and give your imagination space. Talent can not be learned or trained. Not everyone is creative. But I’m sure the ones who are: They just […]

There comes a time in life, you have the sad feeling that there’s nobody left who cares. Otherwise you have broke or you lose your job or someone died. Not the moments we want to witness. Not the moments that make us happy. Think about it. Think about it twice. These are the moments you […]

My recommendation!

This was one of the most beautiful holidays I ever made and this was not because of the city itself.

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I visited Zadar in 2015 and it was one of my most beautiful holidays. The accomodation I already recommended was perfect: Villa Karma Zadar; and the city offers so much to see although it is very small and originally. From the accomodation to the city was a nice way along the waterfront which was gave […]